Some thoughts on prayer, and a prayer challenge to you

Let me start out by saying that I am no authority on prayer. What I am is a person traveling through this world endeavoring at the best times to do good, and at least to do no harm. What I know is that starting my day off with prayer makes me feel better and more centered and allows me to move forward in a way that is obviously lacking when I just get-up-and-go in the morning, without prayer. And I'm not talking about a quick Pater Noster as I brush my teeth, I'm talking about some quiet reflective time where I talk to God, with God, or at God followed by some time listening.

So, how does it work? Well, the Rev. Abbie Huff, who was an intern at Marble Collegiate Church last year, gave me this formula for prayer that I try to use whenever I pray. It seems a pretty standard order of prayer from what I've heard and read online, but it was she who introduced it to me. The initials are A.T.C.I.P. and they stand for adoration, thanksgiving, confession, intercession, and petition. In a nutshell, they mean this:

• Adoration - This is when I talk about how great, wonderful, glorious, and holy God is. For example, "Oh gracious, loving, and merciful God, Creator of us all, You are the source of everything and Your love endures forever." 
• Thanksgiving - This where I thank my maker for whatever's on my mind. E.g., "I am thankful to You for another day on this planet. Thank you for this job that you've allowed me to take, for the gift of music that you've bestowed upon me, and for the love of my friends and family."
• Confession - I am not perfect, and here's what I've done. "God, I have missed the mark in so many ways. I raised my voice at my 4th Graders ... again. I gossiped about my neighbor. And, Lord, you know the sins I have committed in my heart that I am unwilling or unable to say aloud right now."
• Intercession - I intercede on others' behalf and ask God to help them. "Merciful Creator, please bring your healing mercies upon the people of Haiti, that they may recover from the earthquake and rebuild their lives and their society better than they were before."
• Petition - I ask God for what I need. "Lord, you know better than I do what I need. I ask that you help me see clearly the path I am supposed to take in the classroom. Give me strength, Lord, to have compassion and love in all circumstances. And please, God of Grace, help me to want what I have that I may be content where I am and willing to serve You."
  • I ask all of these things in the name of Jesus the Messiah. Amen.
• Following this, I like to sit and meditate for awhile, to just sit in silence with God. It's actually quite difficult. My mind races, my thoughts waver, I start thinking about the day ahead. But I try, to the best of my ability, to sit still for a few minutes with my head cleared for God to come in.

Now ... the question is ... do I do all of these things everyday? NO! On far too many days I hit the snooze button one-too-many times and then by the time I've gotten out of bed I barely have enough time for a shower and a bowl of cereal. Some days, when I kneel down to prayer (oh, yes, on my best days I pray on my knees) the best I can do is say the Lord's Prayer a few times and ask God to bring me safely to the end of the day. Sometimes, I don't feel inspired enough to kneel, so I lie down on the floor and just say "Help me!" The point is that any one of these prayers is a better way to start my day than no prayer at all, but I feel the most tranquil and focused when I make the time for the whole nine yards: get up, wash my face, kneel down, ATCIP, meditate. 

So here is my prayer challenge to you ... will you join me in a month of prayer? Set your alarm 15 minutes earlier everyday and wake up and start your day with prayer. I will make an honest effort to wake up 15 minutes earlier everyday (that means 6:15am EST M-F with more leeway on the weekends) and pray and meditate. Post your comments below and let me know how it's going for you, or email me at matthew@sanctuarycollective.org. I'd love to hear what your prayer practices are and how a month of prayer is going for you. 

I'll let you know how my month went when I post again on March 1.

Yours, 
Matthew Beams
Matthew 5:16